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The Results Are In

Your Success Factor Superpower is
Independence!

I know there’s much more to you than those nine quiz questions, but here is what I do know.

You are the definition of self-reliant. Dependent on your own resources and knowledge rather than others.

Instead of relying on others,  you take care of yourself, and you prefer to get things done on your own. In fact, it may even feel like a burden when you are asked to work with others. You  prefer opportunities that allow you to be an individual contributor, or you may seek your own path as an entrepreneur. You are capable of managing your time and multiple demands and competing deadlines. While you may enjoy the recognition of your contribution likely not a limelight seeker. And while you may prefer to work alone, this quality makes you a great part of any group.

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What's not to appreciate about that?

However, just like our beloved superheroes,
our superpowers also have a shadow side.

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While your superpower can help you through small bursts of stress, your shadow side is likely to show up in prolonged high-pressure situations. These are situations that put your independence superpower into overdrive. 

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When this happens your independence may show up as a need push others away and isolate yourself as you tackle the challenge at hand. Suddenly, your need for independence shifts and makes you repel any offers of assistance. Instead, you rely on an internal demand that you do it on your own, or not at all.

We all recognize that there are times when we need to do things completely on our own.  However, those times can be very infrequent.  In fact, it can be healthy for even the most independent people to connect with others around a shared purpose. 

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When independence amplifies into isolation, and the volume isn’t regularly turned down, the demands of isolation  can be difficult on those around you.  More importantly, it can take a huge toll on you.

And here’s the kicker: the tendency to isolate when you are outside of your comfort zone often reveals an
overactive inner critic.

That's right, your independence might be cloaking thoughts that you are not good enough, skilled enough or educated enough to do the thing you are doing.  As stress grows  your inner critic does too and your greatest qualities are overshadowed and your superpower sparkle is dimmed. 

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Instead of thriving with independence and self-reliance, you succumb to a spiral of believing that asking for help is a sign of weakness and that you don’t know what you are doing.

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Are you ready to take charge of your inner critic?  Check out the You, Rediscovered Program, and let's talk.

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Despite this, remember that your independence is a superpower.  You are a master of your time and effectively handle multiple demands and competing deadlines. However, isolationist thinking can lead you down a path of do-it-yourself or don’t do it at all thinking, unrealistic standards, and highly critical thoughts about yourself and others. It’s worth looking into and keeping in check. Therefore, it's worth paying attention to and keeping in check.

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"You can do anything, but not everything."  -David Allen

Hello, friend! I’m Linda Rhoads ✨

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I’m a purpose and leadership coach who helps people tame their inner critics and live life free from feeling like they are not enough. Not smart enough, not credentialed enough, not young enough, not old enough.  You name it.  

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There are too many “not enoughs” to list and I lived with many of them as my high-speed inner critic guided my life.​

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Eventually, finding myself literally sick and tired of trying to "be enough" I made a choice. I learned to silence my inner critic. As a result, I recrafted my life . . .  from the inside out.  Once I no longer had a symphony of criticism playing in my mind I was able to reshape my whole life into something that represents me.

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Looking around, I  saw that so many people were grappling with the same internal obstacles. In 2019 I started coaching women on taming their inner critic.  Now I guide people toward banishing that critical harassment so that they can experience a newfound sense of self-assurance, fulfillment and connection.

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Supporting people through this dynamic process of transformation and growth as they redefine their sense of themselves is what I do. Seeing people as they gain clarity, confidence, and liberation is deeply rewarding,

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I’d love to help you experience that shift, too. 

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I look forward to connecting with you!  Be sure to check your inbox for information about the inner critic, how to recognize if it might be impacting you and what you can do to calm it - and all sorts of transformational tips, too!

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